Victor left a fun note in the restaurant guestbook at the couple’s first swanky dinner together.

Ellen had been dating Victor for a few months and they’d never had a DTR talk, which was fine, except for the part where Victor was about to move cross-country and they weren’t sure what that would mean for their relationship. Enter #AYMBF: Ellen was telling him about the book, which prompted him to ask the big question: Am I your boyfriend? Fortunately for Victor, her answer was “yes!”